Executive presence, demystified: Part 1
Leadership today doesn’t come with the luxury of guesswork. Intuition, charisma, and old habits aren’t enough to carry us forward. In a hybrid world, where hallway conversations and informal cues have all but disappeared, small signals carry outsized weight. Your words, your silences, your facial expressions, how quickly or thoughtfully you respond to an email—these become the cues people rely on to interpret how you feel, what you expect, and how much they matter to you as a stakeholder. Add in constant Slack messages, Zoom calls, and email threads, and every interaction becomes a moment of truth. Communication gets dissected quickly, often without full context. Each moment can either build—or erode—credibility and trust. As a result, it’s no surprise that executive presence (the way your leadership is perceived) is under a brighter spotlight than ever. And yet, it remains one of the most misunderstood dimensions of leadership. Leaders hear it matters. They’re told when they have it, or don’t, but they rarely receive clear, practical insight to help them understand what it is or how to build it.
Why leaders struggle to see themselves clearly
Over the years, I’ve had hundreds of coaching conversations with senior leaders. And nearly every one has reinforced the same truth: even the most capable leaders rarely get honest, useful feedback on how they come across. Most of what they hear is filtered: shaped by hierarchy, team dynamics, or the desire to keep the peace. They may get regular input on business results or performance goals, but often they get very little feedback on presence itself. That makes executive presence hard to improve. You can’t shift what you can’t see. And when feedback is vague or inconsistent, it’s easy for leaders to default to habits that may no longer serve them. That’s where tools like the Bates Executive Presence Index (ExPI™) come in. The ExPI™ is a 360° assessment designed to help leaders understand how others experience them across 15 distinct facets of executive presence from Authenticity to Vision to Concern.
“You’ve got to name it to tame it”
One conversation about executive presence with a leader we’ll call “Maya” stands out. After we reviewed her ExPI™ results, celebrating what was working and exploring a few areas rated lower, I asked how the session felt. She paused for a moment and said:
“I know this wasn’t therapy, but it felt like it at times. And you know what my therapist always says? ‘You’ve got to name it to tame it.’”
That stuck with me, because it’s true: awareness is the first step to change. Before this, Maya had never had a clear picture of how she showed up with her manager, her team, or her peers. For the first time, she had language for the things she’d sensed but couldn’t pinpoint. And with that, she could make small, intentional shifts that would strengthen her leadership impact.
Executive presence isn’t vague, it’s visible
While executive presence often feels hard to define, that’s usually because it’s talked about in broad, subjective terms like “gravitas” or “charisma.” In reality, executive presence is grounded in visible, measurable behaviors. The challenge is that most people don’t have a shared language for what to look for. It’s not about being the loudest voice or “commanding the room.” It’s about how you build trust, communicate with clarity, and bring others with you, especially in high-stakes moments. Once you know what to look for, executive presence becomes less of a mystery and more of a skill you can practice and refine.
Executive presence refers to the qualities of a leader that engage, inspire, align, and move people to act. Based on research, we have organized those qualities in a set of leadership behaviors that appear across three dimensions: Character, Substance, and Style.
These are observable signals that shape how others experience your leadership.
A framework for turning awareness into action
Awareness of how others experience your leadership is a crucial first step, but it’s not enough: Leaders need to know what they can do to take action on this awareness. Here’s what we recommend:
- Where do I stand? Start with a reliable mirror. A structured tool like the ExPI™ helps you understand how others perceive your presence across key traits like Practical Wisdom, Composure, and Assertiveness.
- What strengths do I want to protect? Your superpowers are likely already serving you, but they can also become liabilities if overused. Appreciating both the upside and the risk of overusing it helps you use them more skillfully.
- What’s getting in my way? Common blockers include being too guarded, reactive, or intense under pressure. The goal isn’t to eliminate them but to recognize patterns and adjust intentionally.
- What small shifts could make a big difference? Executive presence isn’t about reinvention. It’s often about dialing one behavior up and another down in critical moments. Flexing just enough to shift how you’re experienced—without losing yourself.
What leaders often learn from the ExPI™
When leaders first see their ExPI results, it’s rarely a total surprise. More often, they find that something they suspected to be an issue is having a much bigger—or different—impact than they realized. Here are some ways that might show up:
- The ripple effect you missed. You may know you’re blunt or reactive, but not realize it’s keeping people from bringing you problems or ideas.
- The missing detail. You might know you need to improve Vision, but the ExPI shows whether the gap is in strategic thinking, inspiring others, or both—and with whom it shows up.
- The “happy blind spot.” Others may rate you higher than you rate yourself—a sign that you may need to focus less on that quality and more on another that is truly an area of opportunity.
- What got you here won’t get you there. Traits like decisiveness or bias to action may have served you well as an individual contributor, but they can backfire in a leadership role if they limit collaboration or inclusiveness.
- Character vs. Substance and Style. Many leaders score highest in Character (formed early in life) and lower in Substance and Style (skills built over time). It helps to remember that what they are seeing are perceptions—and they can be changed.
- Everything’s connected. Improving one facet often boosts others—for example, raising Resonance can lift Concern, Humility, Practical Wisdom, Interactivity, and Inclusiveness.
Insights like these turn vague impressions into concrete starting points for growth—without asking leaders to become someone they’re not.
Presence is perception in action
Many leaders spend a lot of energy trying to read the room, manage perceptions, or recover from moments that didn’t land well. When you understand how your presence is being read and have a language to interpret and adjust it, your work gets simpler. You stop worrying about how you're coming across and start operating from a place of calm clarity. Perception equals impact, and your presence is a shortcut to help you understand how others interpret your leadership. Those around you are picking up on how grounded your thinking is (Substance), how you engage in dialogue in the moment (Style), and what your behavior reveals about your values and intent (Character). Whether you need to show up as a strategic partner, drive growth, or shepherd people through change, how you show up shapes how your ideas land. Even small improvements in presence can unlock major shifts in influence, trust, and results.
Try this to shape your executive presence
Ask two trusted colleagues: “When have you seen me at my best as a leader?” Listen closely. Then ask yourself: “What was I doing that made the difference, and how can I do more of it on purpose?” When you name it, you can tame it, and that’s when your executive presence becomes a catalyst for impact.
Want deeper insight into how you’re showing up as a leader?
- Explore the Bates ExPI™ to get clear, actionable 360° feedback from a certified expert.
- Contact us to get certified to use the ExPI™ with leaders across your team or enterprise.
→ Read Part 2 of this series to explore the ways you can fine-tune your executive presence, authentically.
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Technology choices are often made under pressure - pressure to modernize, to respond to shifting client expectations, to demonstrate progress, or to keep pace with rapid advances in AI. In those moments, even experienced leadership teams can fall into familiar traps: over-estimating how differentiated a capability will remain, under-estimating the organizational cost of sustaining it, and committing earlier than the strategy or operating model can realistically support.
After decades of working with leaders through digital and technology-enabled transformations, I’ve seen these dynamics play out again and again. The issue is rarely the quality of the technology itself. It’s the timing of commitment, and how quickly an early decision hardens into something far harder to unwind than anyone intended.
What has changed in today’s AI-accelerated environment is not the nature of these traps, but the margin for error. It has narrowed dramatically.
For small and mid-sized organizations, the consequences are immediate. You don't have specialist teams running parallel experiments or long runways to course correct. A single bad platform decision can absorb scarce capital, distort operating models, and take years to unwind just as the market shifts again.
AI intensified this tension. It is wildly over-hyped as a silver bullet and quietly under-estimated as a structural disruptor. Both positions are dangerous. AI won’t magically fix broken processes or weak strategy, but it will change the economics of how work gets done and where value accrues.
When leaders ask how to approach digital platforms, AI adoption, or operating model design, four questions consistently matter more than the technology itself.
- What specific market problem does this solve, and what is it worth?
- Is this capability genuinely unique, or is it rapidly becoming commoditized?
- What is the true total cost - not just to build, but to run and evolve over time?
- What is the current pace of innovation for this niche?
For many leadership teams, answering these questions leads to the same strategic posture. Move quickly today while preserving options for tomorrow. Not as doctrine, but as a way of staying adaptive without mistaking early commitment for strategic clarity.
Why build versus buy is the wrong starting point
One of the most common traps organizations fall into is treating digital strategy as a series of isolated build-vs-buy decisions. That framing is too narrow, and it usually arrives too late.
A more powerful question is this. How do we preserve optionality as the landscape continues to evolve? Technology decisions often become a proxy for deeper organizational challenges. Following acquisitions or periods of rapid change, pressure frequently surfaces at the front line. Sales teams respond to client feedback. Delivery teams push for speed. Leaders look for visible progress.
In these moments, technology becomes the focal point for action. Not because it is the root problem, but because it is tangible.
The real risk emerges operationally. Poorly sequenced transitions, disruption to the core business, and value that proves smaller or shorter-lived than anticipated. Teams become locked into delivery paths that no longer make commercial sense, while underlying system assumptions remain unchanged.
The issue is rarely technical. It is temporal.
Optimizing for short-term optics, particularly client-facing signals of progress, often comes at the expense of longer-term adaptability. A cleaner interface over an ageing platform may buy temporary parity, but it can also delay the more important work of rethinking what is possible in the near and medium term.
Conservatism often shows up quietly here. Not as risk aversion, but as a preference for extending the familiar rather than exploring what could fundamentally change.
Licensing as a way to buy time and insight
In fast-moving areas such as AI orchestration, many organizations are choosing to license capability rather than build it internally. This is not because licensing is perfect. It rarely is. It introduces constraints and trade-offs. But it was fast. And more importantly, it acknowledged reality.
The pace of change in this space is such that what looks like a good architectural decision today may be actively unhelpful in twelve months. Licensing allowed us to operate right at the edge of what we actually understood at the time - without pretending we knew where the market would land six or twelve months later.
Licensing should not be seen as a lack of ambition. It is often a way of buying time, learning cheaply, and avoiding premature commitment. Building too early doesn’t make you visionary, often it just makes you rigid.
AI is neither a silver bullet nor a feature
Coaching is a useful microcosm of the broader AI debate.
Great AI coaching that is designed with intent and grounded in real coaching methodology can genuinely augment the experience and extend impact. The market is saturated with AI-enabled coaching tools and what is especially disappointing is that many are thin layers of prompts wrapped around a large language model. They are responsive, polite, and superficially impressive - and they largely miss the point.
Effective coaching isn’t about constant responsiveness. It’s about clarity. It’s about bringing experience, structure, credibility, and connection to moments where someone is stuck.
At the other extreme, coaches themselves are often deeply traditional. A heavy pen, a leather-bound notebook, and a Royal Copenhagen mug of coffee are far more likely to be sitting on the desk than the latest GPT or Gemini model.
That conservatism is understandable - coaching is built on trust, presence, and human connection - but it’s increasingly misaligned with how scale and impact are actually created.
The real opportunity for AI is not to replace human work with a chat interface. It is to codify what actually works. The decision points, frameworks, insights, and moments that drive behavior change. AI can then be used to augment and extend that value at scale.
A polished interface over generic capability is not enough. If AI does not strengthen the core value of the work, it is theatre, not transformation.
What this means for leaders
Across all of these examples, the same pattern shows up.
The hardest decisions are rarely about capability, they are about timing, alignment, and conviction.
Building from scratch only makes sense when you can clearly articulate:
- What you believe that the market does not
- Why that belief creates defensible value
- Why you’re willing to concentrate risk behind it
Clear vision scales extraordinarily well when it’s tightly held. The success of narrow, focused Silicon Valley start-ups is testament to that.
Larger organizations often carry a broader set of commitments. That complexity increases when depth of expertise is spread across functions, and even more so when sales teams have significant autonomy at the point of sale. Alignment becomes harder not because people are wrong, but because too many partial truths are competing at once.
In these environments, strategic clarity, not headcount or spend, creates advantage.
This is why many leadership teams choose to license early. Not because building is wrong, but because most organizations have not yet earned the right to build.
This article was originally publish on Rotman Management
IN OUR CONSULTING WORK with teams at all levels—especially senior leadership—my colleagues and I have noticed teams grappling with an insidious challenge: a lack of effective prioritization. When everything is labeled a priority, nothing truly is. Employees feel crushed under the weight of competing demands and the relentless urgency to deliver on multiple fronts. Requests for prioritization stem from both a lack of focused direction and the challenge of efficiently fulfilling an overwhelming volume of work. Over time, this creates a toxic cycle of burnout, inefficiency and dissatisfaction.
The instinctive response to this issue is to streamline, reduce the number of initiatives, and focus. While this is a step in the right direction, it doesn’t fully address the problem. Prioritization isn’t just about whittling down a to-do list or ranking activities by importance and urgency on an Eisenhower Decision Matrix; it also requires reshaping how we approach work more productively.
In our work, we have found that three critical factors lie at the heart of solving prioritization challenges: tasks, tracking and trust. Addressing these dimensions holistically can start to address the root causes of feeling overwhelmed and lay the foundation for sustainable productivity. Let’s take a closer look at each.
You’re buckling in for an overseas flight in a brand-new Boeing 777. The pilot comes on the PA: “Ah, ladies and gentlemen, our flight time today will be six and a half hours at a cruising altitude of 33,000 feet. And I should mention that this is the first time I have ever flown a 777. Wish me luck.”
Before setting foot in the real world, pilots, military personnel and disaster response teams use intense simulations to learn how to respond to high-intensity challenges.Why should we place corporate leaders and their teams in situations without first giving them a chance to try things out? The risks are huge — new strategy investments can run into the hundreds of millions of dollars. BTS offers a better way to turn strategy into action: customized business simulations.
‘Now I Know What it’s Like to be CEO’
A customized business simulation of your enterprise, business unit or process, using real-world competitive dynamics, places leaders in a context where they step out of their normal day-to-day roles and gain exposure to the big picture. Participants make decisions in a risk-free environment, allowing them to experience critical interdependencies, execution best practices and the levers they can use to optimize their company’s key performance indicators. It takes the concept of a strategy and makes it personal, giving each individual the chance to see the direct impacts of their actions and the role they play in strategy execution.
Leading corporations are increasingly turning to business simulations to help build strategic alignment and execution capability when faced with the following business challenges:
- Key performance objective and new strategy implementation.
- Accelerating strategy execution and innovation.
- Improving business acumen and financial decision making.
- Transforming sales programs into business results accelerators.
- Leadership development focused on front-line execution.
- Implementing culture change as tied to strategy alignment.
- Modeling complex value chains for collaborative cost elimination.
- Merger integration.
Within minutes of being placed in a business simulation, users are grappling with issues and decisions that they must make — now. A year gets compressed into a day or less. Competition among teams spurs engagement, invention and discovery.
The Business Simulation Continuum: Customize to Fit Your Needs
Simulations have a broad range of applications, from building deep strategic alignment to developing execution capability. The more customized the simulation, the more experience participants can bring back to the job in execution and results. Think about it: why design a learning experience around generic competency models or broad definitions of success when the point is to improve within your business context? When you instead simulate what “great” looks like for your organization, you exponentially increase the efficacy of your program.
10 Elements of Highly Effective Business Simulations
With 30 years of experience building and implementing highly customized simulations for Fortune 500 companies, BTS has developed the 10 critical elements of an effective business simulation:
- Highly realistic with points of realism targeted to drive experiential learning.
- Dynamically competitive with decisions and results impacted by peers’ decisions in an intense, yet fun, environment.
- Illustrative, not prescriptive or deterministic, with a focus on new ways of thinking.
- Catalyzes discussion of critical issues with learning coming from discussion within teams and among individuals.
- Business-relevant feedback, a mechanism to relate the simulation experience directly back to the company’s business and key strategic priorities.
- Delivered with excellence : High levels of quality and inclusion of such design elements as group discussion, humor, coaching and competition that make the experience highly interactive, intriguing, emotional, fun, and satisfying.
- User driven: Progress through the business simulation experience is controlled by participants and accommodates a variety of learning and work styles.
- Designed for a specific target audience, level and business need.
- Outcome focused , so that changes in mindset lead to concrete actions.
- Enables and builds community: Interpersonal networks are created and extended through chat rooms, threaded discussions and issue-focused e-mail groups; participants support and share with peers.
Better Results, Faster
Well-designed business simulations are proven to significantly accelerate the time to value of corporate initiatives. A new strategy can be delivered to a global workforce and execution capability can be developed quickly, consistently and cost-effectively. It’s made personal, so that back on the job, participants own the new strategy and share their enthusiasm and commitment. This in turn yields tangible results; according to a research report conducted by the Economist Intelligence Unit and sponsored by BTS, titled “Mindsets: Gaining Buy-In to Strategy,” the majority of firms struggle to achieve buy-in to strategy, but those that personalize strategy throughout their organization significantly outperform their peers in terms of profitability, revenue growth and market share.
Business Simulations: Even More Powerful in Combination
Comprehensive deployment of business simulation and experiential learning programs combines live and online experiences. The deepest alignment, mindset shift and capability building takes place over time through a series of well-designed activities. Maximize impact by linking engagement and skill building to organizational objectives and by involving leadership throughout the process.
Putting Business Simulations to Work
Simulations drive strategic alignment, sales force transformation, and business acumen, financial acumen and leadership development, among other areas. A successful experiential learning program cements strategic alignment and builds execution capability across the entire organization, turning strategy into action. Results can be measured in team effectiveness, company alignment, revenue growth and share price.
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