Executive presence: more important than ever
“I’ll know it when I see it.”
These are the words that eight years ago launched the Bates ExPITM, what was then and still is, the only research-based, validated, scientific way to measure Executive Presence.
Why measure executive presence?
At the time, the leaders we were working with were struggling with the concept. Executive Presence was important and sought after, but ill-defined. When we asked leaders what they meant by executive presence, even those with expertise in executive talent development would offer vague descriptors such as “gravitas,” “inspiring,” and “great communicator.” While these executives would tell us they wanted more executive presence in their leaders, they could not say exactly what they were looking for from them. How do you develop more of something when you can’t describe the specific behaviors you are looking for? “I know it when I see it” is not helpful to guide leaders on what to do differently.
As a result, we set out to find the specific behaviors behind what people mean by executive presence. We conducted the first, science-based research into executive presence, ultimately creating the Executive Presence Index, the ExPITM, which defines the behaviors of successful leaders who are able to engage, align, inspire and motivate people to act. The survey that constitutes the basis of the model includes 90 questions about leaders’ behaviors across the 15 facets and three dimensions of Character, Substance and Style.
Changing the way we lead
In the intervening eight years, this leadership model has been instrumental in changing the way leaders at some of the world’s largest companies lead and create impact in their organizations. Along the way, we have partnered with our clients to help them create and deliver the kind of leadership they need to take their companies forward.
Starting a few years ago, some of these companies began to ask for clarification on some of the survey questions, trying to understand how to interpret words like “Appearance,” which was one of the 15 facets that describe high performing leaders, or words like “tolerate” within some of the individual questions. We found ourselves having to explain and reposition some of the descriptions, which told us there was a lack of clarity in intent with some of the content. We started to ask ourselves whether we needed to reexamine the way we were thinking about the items in the model.
Then came 2020, and the George Floyd incident, the #METOO movement, and the rapid rise in awareness of the need to focus on Diversity and Inclusion across the business, arts, and broader community. This galvanized our efforts to systematically think about what we needed to do when we were assessing leaders with an inclusive lens, and how inclusiveness is reflected in the behaviors of today’s leaders.
Shifting and strengthening our lens on inclusive leadership
We started by reexamining every question we ask in the Bates ExPITM assessment and asking ourselves the question – how might this be interpreted? How might this make someone feel included or excluded? What are the hidden messages, however unintended, that someone might infer in some of those questions? We realized that in the eight years since we launched the Bates ExPITM, our own perspective had shifted, not dramatically, but in important ways that we realized are also important to our clients. As we reexamined the questions, we applied an inclusive lens that included racial and gender perspectives, differing abilities, as well as cultural and international perspectives. Exploring the wording of our survey questions highlighted for us the ambiguity of the English language and how that can be interpreted not only by English speakers but by English as a Second Language speakers. It was important for us to ensure that as was our original intent, this is an assessment that works globally.
This exploration yielded encouraging and inspiring results, in terms of providing insight and guidance to today’s leaders globally.
- The large majority – 80 of the 90 survey items or leadership behaviors – stood up to the scrutiny and analysis, retaining their relevance and insight for a more inclusive view of leadership
- The remaining 10 items were revised, vetted, and updated with language intended to clarify and simplify the behaviors to remove ambiguity and reduce the chance for misinterpretation. The changes involved updates such as replacing words and phrases that suggest exclusion, such as “tolerance” or “tolerate,” and with “supporting” and “promoting.”
- We also renamed one of the 15 facets, Appearance in the Style dimension, to Demeanor to align it with the intent of the facet which was not about how someone looks per se, which is what appearance means to many people, but rather how they carry themselves, do they energize a room, do they get people excited about getting on board.
The result of this effort is a refreshed perspective on the same powerful leadership model that details what behaviors enable leaders to engage, inspire, align and motivate people to act.
A rigorous and thoughtful process
The process we used was thoughtful and thorough. We sought input from some of the biggest companies in the world, who are our clients, and we asked them to share with us what questions they found ambiguous and why. We went out to our own global sphere of influencers and asked them to help us think through what might need to change. We assembled a panel of assessment experts, as well as experts in diversity and inclusion, to analyze and vet the questions and options for changes. We then tested and validated the new questions to ensure that we are able to preserve the validity of the assessment and continue to rely on the data we have been collecting for 7 years as a powerful research base in the continuing work we are doing to understand what really matters for leaders.
Measuring and tapping into the power of executive presence more important than ever
The world is moving faster than ever, and leaders are facing bigger challenges, as they steer their companies beyond the pandemic, into a high growth, and more diverse and inclusive mode. The biggest challenge CEOS are facing right now is the challenge of talent and leadership. Leaders need to be able to perform at their best and pivot and flex in unprecedented ways. They need actionable data to be able to address the areas with the most impact for their own situation.
A 360 assessment like the Bates ExPITM is a critical tool to make this happen. The Bates ExPITM measures perceptions of a leader’s behaviors, behaviors that sometimes don’t land the way they are intended. Many 360s focus on skills and activities, not on behaviors. While personality assessments like the Hogan or other assessments provide insight, the ability to get hard data to understand how peers, managers, direct reports and key stakeholders perceive a leader is an unparalleled way to uncover blind spots, identify strengths and move the needle rapidly. Now is the time to arm leaders with all the available tools to accelerate their performance and lead their organizations along with them.
In a nutshell
- The Bates ExPITM is not a “PC” exercise, but rather it is a strategic revisit and refresh to make sure the survey content aligns with the intent.
- This is an important opportunity to ensure that as a leadership model it reflects an inclusive and representative view of what leaders need now to engage, align, inspire and motivate others to act.
- The Bates ExPITM is still the same powerful leadership model, backed by a deep database of leadership data and insights that can be mined to advance the impact of individual leaders and the leadership bench.
- Executive presence – the behaviors that enable a leader to inspire, align and motivate people to act – is not only more relevant than ever, but the path forward for leaders in this new, challenging and changing world.
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Last night I started reading a book by Irvin Yalom, a psychiatrist who has written several novels that I’ve loved. But right now I’m reading something different—a book of short lessons he’s learned from many years of working with patients.
Early in his career, Yalom was inspired by something he read. The gist of it was that all people have a natural tendency to want to grow and become fulfilled—just an acorn will grow up to become an oak—as long as there are no obstacles in the way. So the job of the psychotherapist was to eliminate the obstacles to growth.
This was a eureka moment for Yalom. At the time, he was treating a young widow. Suffering through grief for a long while, she wanted help because she had a “failed heart”—an inability ever to love again.
Yalom had felt overwhelmed. How could he possibly change someone’s inability to love? But now he looked at it differently. He could dedicate himself to identifying and eliminating the obstacles that kept her from loving.
So they worked on that—her feelings of disloyalty to her late husband, her sense that she was somehow responsible for his death, and the fear of loss that falling in love again would mean. Eventually they eliminated all of the obstacles. Then her natural ability to love—and grow—returned. She remarried.
Reading this story made me think of the responsibility of leaders toward the people they need to develop—and for the growth and learning that leaders themselves require to be the best that they can be.
Many leadership development challenges seem overwhelming—even impossible. The leaders that we coach usually have a list of areas where they want to get better, but how? How do you “build better relationships with your peers and direct reports”? How are you supposed to “get out of the weeds and demonstrate enterprise-wide thinking” or “build executive presence”? All of these goals are as abstract as they are huge.
So the best approach is to not focus on the huge and fuzzy goal. What we try to do is to break these goals down into concrete actions through working on real-time business problems. To put it simply, though, we do just as Yalom does: We identify the obstacles and work toward knocking them off, one at a time.
Leadership development is not usually a quick fix. You’re not going to develop executive presence through a half-day workshop or a one-time meeting. If you’re interested in meaningful, lasting growth—whether for yourself or for those who work for you—it’s a commitment.
But don’t ever forget that we’re all capable of growth throughout life and our careers. The trick is to find the right coach or mentor who will guide you through that obstacle course.
In my work as an executive coach, I meet at least once a month with each of my coaching clients.
I often talk to them on the phone and exchange emails with them as we work on their real-time business challenges. So, what happens in those conversations? Recurring themes start to come up. I find that many leaders have a “talk track” of words and phrases that they use all the time—without always being aware of the impact. For better or worse, this talk track ends up becoming part of their executive presence and their brand as a leader.
One of my clients had a talk track for many years that led to a reputation for negativity. In one meeting alone, I noticed that he had described about ten different work experiences as “nightmares.” Strong word! So we talked about this talk track. And the next time I heard him lapse into that way of talking, I decided to delve into it. “What I just heard from you was an example of that ‘talk track’ we’ve talked about,” I said. “So let’s talk about this. You say it was a ‘nightmare.’ Okay—why do you call it a nightmare?”
The upshot was that he had made a sales presentation but didn’t get the deal. I said, “Let’s use accurate language to describe the situation.” Was it a nightmare? No. Maybe it was a disappointment. Maybe he could have said, “Unfortunately, we didn’t get the deal” or “They decided to go with another vendor” and state why, objectively. My goal was to get him to stop “catastrophizing” when something didn’t work out.
This leader didn’t want to be defined by that negative “talk track” anymore. So I told him that the only way to do that is to turn up the volume on a very different talk track—one that captures the brand and presence that you want to project.
I’ve had clients who always talked about how difficult or challenging or complex things seemed to them. You’ve probably had a boss or colleague with any number of talk-track themes:
- “I’m so exhausted/overwhelmed/unhappy/unappreciated….”
- “Everyone here is useless/stupid/incompetent….”
- “It’s such a difficult environment/project/client/travel schedule…”
- “That will never work/We won’t get that deal/It’s a dumb idea/What were they thinking?”
Often people aren’t even aware of how much they harp on a conversational theme and how negatively this lack of executive presence is affecting their professional brand. So what can you do to make sure your talk track is working for you and not against you as a leader? Take these four steps:
1. Identify your talk-track themes.
What are the words and phrases that you find yourself constantly using in conversations at work? Write down the things you seem to say almost every day—or think about what themes come up all the time for you in conversation at work or elsewhere.
2. Consider the impact of your talk track.
As a leader, your words carry more weight than others. You’re setting the tone for your team or division or organization. Whether that tone is absurdly optimistic, cynical, critical, upbeat, energized, or overly emotional, it’s going to be the model for others. Make sure that your talk track is consistent with the values and behaviors you want to drive.
3. Challenge the reality of your talk track.
How accurate is your talk track? Do you have a natural tendency to see the part of the glass that’s empty? How do you respond to setbacks? Do you gloss over the pain? Do you make a mountain out of a molehill? It’s crucial for leaders to be balanced, objective, and real about what’s happening. Your language choices need to reflect that.
4. Consider what you could say differently.
It’s easy to lapse into your talk track. When you catch yourself saying the same old things, try to catch yourself as if an alarm was going off. Can you find another way to say it—something that’s consistent with the brand and presence you want to project.
Don’t get me wrong. Leaders do need to be “real” about challenges and setbacks, and a somber tone may be appropriate and even helpful at times. The goal is to become more aware of your talk track and what it’s doing for you and others. As a leader, people take their cues from you. Before you know it, your talk track can dominate or drive the culture.
Changing your talk track is a challenge. Our ways of talking and viewing the world are pretty ingrained through several decades of life experiences. But change is also very possible. Pump up the volume on a more positive talk track for the holidays, and your presence will be viewed as a gift.
A while back, I heard an anecdote on the radio about cellist Yo-Yo Ma, and it really struck me. Surprisingly, Ma said that once of his biggest inspirations was chef, author, and television personality Julia Child.
Huh?! Well, it turns out that thinking about Julia Child helped him get in the right mindset before a performance. He would think about watching her on television, making a roast chicken that looked beautiful—only to have it fall off the plate and onto the floor. Did she flip out? No, she never stopped smiling. She just acknowledged what happened and went on with the show.
Reflecting on this, Ma realized that the best mindset he could have as a performer was to ensure that his audience was having a good experience—rather than worrying about being perfect. Speaking to the St. Louis Post Dispatch last October, he said, “The idea of performing is hosting. It’s like you’re giving a party. You invite people to come to a place and enjoy something special; basically, they’re subject to whatever you dish out. You want them to have a great time, they want to have a great time, and what are you doing to facilitate that?”
In a Malcolm Gladwell article that I read years ago, Yo-Yo Ma also admitted that he used to strive for perfection in performance. When he was 17, he practiced a Brahms sonata for a year with technical perfection in mind. So what happened when he did that? “In the middle of the performance I thought, I’m bored. It would have been nothing for me to get up from the stage and walk away. That’s when I decided I would always opt for expression over perfection.
”There is a valuable lesson here for executive presentations. In my experience, many leaders worry too much about precision when they present. Aiming for total accuracy, it’s easy to end up with text-heavy PowerPoint slides—and far too many of them. And once you have a ton of bullets on a slide, you usually feel compelled to read them all. At best, slides still tend to distract the audience’s energy away from you—and the presentation is really all about you, not your visuals.
Think about it: What would you rather be able to say at the end of your presentation?
- I covered every point perfectly and spoke without a single stumble.
- I connected deeply with the audience, and I could sense that they were completely engaged with my presentation.
It’s a no-brainer, isn’t it? If you’re able to really connect with your audience’s questions, concerns, and needs, they won’t even notice if the imperfections that jump out to you as the expert.
Of course, there’s a catch here. Connection trumps precision… but the more you master your topic through preparation and practice, the more you’re freed up to focus on connecting with the audience. When you don’t have to work to remember your key points and transitions, you can concentrate more on your eye contact, gestures, and reading the room.
So give some thought to drawing some inspiration from Julia Child, just as Yo-Yo Ma does as a concert performer. When you’re giving a speech, you’re the host, and your job is to set the tone and make sure that everyone has a good experience.
That’s a recipe for a successful presentation.
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La maggior parte delle riunioni di vendita non fallisce.
Semplicemente non porta a una decisione.
Ed è lì che si perde valore.
I clienti di oggi sono più informati, più selettivi e hanno meno tempo.
Non hanno bisogno di altre presentazioni di prodotto.
Hanno bisogno di conversazioni che li aiutino a stabilire le priorità, decidere e andare avanti.
Eppure, il 58% delle riunioni di vendita non riesce a creare valore reale.
Non perché i venditori manchino di capacità, ma perché le conversazioni non sono progettate per far avanzare le decisioni.
“I clienti non agiscono su ogni esigenza che riconoscono.
Agiscono quando qualcosa diventa una priorità.”
In questo breve executive brief scoprirai:
- Perché la maggior parte delle conversazioni informa… ma non porta all’azione
- Cosa spinge davvero i clienti a stabilire priorità e muoversi
- Come creare urgenza senza compromettere la fiducia
- Il passaggio dal presentare soluzioni al facilitare decisioni
- Cosa distingue le conversazioni che si bloccano da quelle che accelerano il progresso
Se i tuoi team stanno affrontando trattative bloccate, decisioni ritardate o un pipeline lento, questo brief ti aiuterà a capire il perché e cosa fare in modo diverso.
Scarica l’executive brief e scopri come progettare conversazioni che portano davvero a decisioni.
A maioria das reuniões de vendas não fracassa.
Elas simplesmente não levam a uma decisão.
E é aí que o valor se perde.
Os clientes de hoje estão mais informados, mais seletivos e com menos tempo.
Eles não precisam de mais apresentações de produto.
Precisam de conversas que os ajudem a priorizar, decidir e avançar.
Ainda assim, 58% das reuniões de vendas não conseguem gerar valor real.
Não porque os vendedores não tenham capacidade, mas porque as conversas não são desenhadas para impulsionar decisões.
“Os clientes não agem sobre todas as necessidades que reconhecem.
Eles agem quando algo se torna prioridade.”
Neste breve material executivo, você vai descobrir:
- Por que a maioria das conversas informa… mas não gera ação
- O que realmente faz os clientes priorizarem e avançarem
- Como criar urgência sem prejudicar a confiança
- A mudança de apresentar soluções para viabilizar decisões
- O que diferencia conversas que estagnam daquelas que aceleram o progresso
Se suas equipes estão enfrentando negócios estagnados, decisões atrasadas ou um pipeline lento, este material vai ajudar você a entender o porquê — e o que fazer de diferente.
Baixe o material executivo e aprenda como desenhar conversas que realmente impulsionam decisões.
La mayoría de las reuniones de ventas no fracasan.
Simplemente no llevan a una decisión.
Y ahí es donde se pierde el valor.
Los clientes de hoy están más informados, son más selectivos y tienen menos tiempo.
No necesitan más presentaciones de producto.
Necesitan conversaciones que les ayuden a priorizar, decidir y avanzar.
Y, sin embargo, el 58% de las reuniones de ventas no logra generar un valor real.
No porque los vendedores carezcan de capacidad, sino porque las conversaciones no están diseñadas para impulsar decisiones.
“Los clientes no actúan sobre cada necesidad que reconocen.
Actúan cuando algo se convierte en una prioridad.”
En este breve informe ejecutivo descubrirás:
Por qué la mayoría de las conversaciones informan… pero no generan acción
- Qué es lo que realmente hace que los clientes prioricen y avancen
- Cómo crear urgencia sin dañar la confianza
- El cambio de presentar soluciones a facilitar decisiones
- Qué diferencia a las conversaciones que se estancan de las que aceleran el avance
Si tus equipos están experimentando acuerdos estancados, decisiones retrasadas o un pipeline lento, este informe te ayudará a entender por qué y qué hacer diferente.
Descarga el informe ejecutivo y aprende a diseñar conversaciones que realmente impulsen decisiones.